Dear Vegan,

We have been going strong for over four years now. You were there for me through some exciting times; my wedding, pregnancy, and the first year of my son’s life. I loved you, and don’t get me wrong….I still do. It’s just that things have changed. I have changed (it’s not you, honestly). I’m not ready to quit you completely because we had some great moments together. You made me a healthier, happier and more informed woman.

The problem is that I’m not getting any younger and I have needs that you aren’t necessarily fulfilling. Remember that heart to heart we had a few weeks ago? I told you I wanted to be a healthier person and not focus as much on appearance anymore.

Since then I have been dabbling in diary (nothing serious, just a bite of cake or ceasar salad here and there) and quite frankly I can’t handle your judgmental stares. You are constantly asking me where I’ve been and blowing up my cell. It’s time I let you know how I feel.

I think we should see other foods. I suggest an open relationship at first so I can see if this is really what I want….what’s best for me. I realize this is not easy to hear but I think it’s best for the both of us. I want to be the healthiest I can for myself and my family and that means a lot of sacrifices. That one cup of coffee with soy milk before my morning workouts just isn’t cutting it anymore. If it was truly meant to be, I will be back. I promise.

Xoxo,

jenn

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